February 23, 2012

I think my child is taking drugs – what do i look for?

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We all know as parents that teenagers go through a difficult time in puberty.  They change as their bodies are full of physical and emotional battles and growth.  But as parents you also know when something is out of the norm.  Maybe your child is hanging out with older or a different crowd, maybe they are increasingly asking for money with no idea where it is going.  Or worse they have stolen from you or completely shut you out of their lives.  Below are some tips of behavioural changes to look for if you suspect your child is taking drugs.

Ecstacy users can grind their teeth and experience “come downs” and memory impairement.  After a high they may also encounter sleep problems.

Heavy marijuana usage can trigger anxiety, lethargy, binge eating or “the munchies” a widening of the pupils and in soem cases of heavy usage it can lead to respiratory issues.

GHB is a strong chemical drug which has grown increasingly popular.  This drug can cause hallucination, slurred and slow speech and even lead to convulsions and seizures.

The worst of the much addiction wise is the big H, heroin.  This highly addictive drug grabs hold of users and pulls them out of main stream society.  You will notice mood swings, extended sleep, poor skin, poor diet and depression.  This is an expensive habit which can lead to stealing.

The best way to handle a situation where you suspect your child of being on drugs is to firstly avoid confrontation and conflict.  Be “present” and positive in their lives and not judgemental.  As hard as it may seem, keep talking and gain trust and openeness.  Conflict and arguments only widens the gap.  If you are unsure of the next steps always speak to your doctor or a recommended drug councillor.

What is Drug Paraphernalia?

Parents of teenagers should be aware of what drug paraphernalia looks like. Drug gear is anything that is used to hide, use or make drugs. To monitor and protect their teens, parents need to be on the lookout for items that could indicate their kids are using drugs.

People can purchase drug paraphernalia from various sources. The Internet and mail-order businesses are some of the primary suppliers. Paraphernalia is also sold at head shops, tobacco stores, gift shops, convenience stores and gas stations. Products that can be purchased legally include pipes, bongs, rolling papers and roach clips. These products usually specify that they are only to be used for tobacco, but, in reality, they are used with illegal drugs as well. Illegal drug products include marijuana growing kits and cocaine freebase kits.

Some people use or modify products designated for other purposes for drugs or make their own paraphernalia. Items that fall into this group include baggies, test tubes, spoons, syringes, rags, lighters, credit cards, tin foil, razor blades and lighters. The type of drugs teens use determine the paraphernalia they have. For instance, different drug items are used for smoking, huffing and injecting substances.

Teens employ various strategies to cover up their drug habit. Young people sometimes use candy and gum wrappers, breath mint containers and other innocuous items to hide drugs. Some adolescents have air fresheners and incense on hand to cover up the smell of drugs. They might use eye drops or wear sunglasses at odd times to disguise their blood-shot eyes, unusual pupil size or strange eye movements.

Much of the drug equipment for sale specifically targets young people. Some of the gear comes in bright colors, with images of celebrities or with trendy designs, such as wizards, dragons and skulls. Some drug items are made to look like other things to conceal their true purpose. For example, some products appear to be beautiful trinkets, makeup, soda cans or markers.

Drug Testing Your Teen

Parents who are concerned that their teen might be using drugs can find out for sure. Parents can opt to use in-home drug tests or have their child tested at a medical clinic. Figuring out whether a young person is using is the first step to getting him or her necessary help.

Teens experimentation with drugs is frequently the beginning of many poor life choices. As drug addiction takes over a young person’s life, the child might drop out of school, begin to have run-ins with the law and eventually end up serving jail time. Drug addiction also poses serious and sometimes fatal health consequences.

Parents can purchase home drugs tests over the Internet, or they can take their child to a doctor to be tested. Different kits test for drugs, alcohol or tobacco in a teen’s saliva, breath, sweat, hair, urine or blood. The tests determine if traces of drugs are present.

Home drug tests are fairly inexpensive and easy to administer. Urine and saliva drug tests are some of the most common. Saliva drug tests can detect drugs for a few hours after use. Pee tests can detect drugs in the system for about three days after use. Hair drug tests are the most accurate and are harder to cheat than some of the other tests. An additional benefit is hair tests can detect the presence of drugs for up to three months after use. The downside of a hair test is there is a waiting period after a drug is used before the drug shows up in the hair.

Parents of at-risk teens may want to consider instituting a drug-testing routine in their home. Drug testing might also have an added benefit of actually preventing a wayward teen from using. The fear of their parents finding out might be enough of a deterrent and give teens an excuse to say no to drugs.